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      <slug>1218-1219-1118-1119-memorial-prayer-memorial-prayer</slug>
      <section>Memorial Prayer</section>
      <topic>Memorial Prayer</topic>
      <printPages>1118-1119</printPages>
      <pdfPages>1218-1219</pdfPages>
      <header>
        <section>
          <hebrew>תפילה בבית האבל</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>t&apos;fi|LAH be|VEIT ha-a|VEL</israeli>
            <orthographic>te|fil|LAH be|VETH ha|ʾa|VEL</orthographic>
            <sephardic>te|fil|LAH be|VET ha|a|VEL</sephardic>
            <chabad>t&apos;fi|LOH b&apos;VEIS ho-o|VEIL</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Memorial Prayer</english>
        </section>
        <topic>
          <hebrew>תפילה בבית האבל</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>t&apos;fi|LAH be|VEIT ha-a|VEL</israeli>
            <orthographic>te|fil|LAH be|VETH ha|ʾa|VEL</orthographic>
            <sephardic>te|fil|LAH be|VET ha|a|VEL</sephardic>
            <chabad>t&apos;fi|LOH b&apos;VEIS ho-o|VEIL</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Memorial Prayer</english>
        </topic>
        <printPages>1118-1119</printPages>
      </header>
      <body>
        <body>
          <type>Instructions</type>
          <text>For a girl, recite:</text>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>(פְּלוֹנִית בַּת פְּלוֹנִי) אֲשֶׁר נֶאֶסְפָה אֶל עַמֶּיהָ. זְכוֹר לָהּ צִדְקָתָהּ אֲשֶׁר
עָשְׂתָה, וִיהִי שְׂכָרָהּ אִתָּהּ, וּפְעֻלָּתָהּ לְפָנֶיהָ. אָנָּא הַסְתֵּר אֶת נִשְׁמָתָהּ
בְּצֵל כְּנָפֶיךָ, הוֹדִיעֶהָ אֹרַח חַיִּים, שֹׂבַע שְׂמָחוֹת אֶת פָּנֶיךָ, נְעִימוֹת
בִּימִינְךָ נֶצַח, וְתַשְׂבִּיעַ לָהּ מֵרֹב טוּב הַצָּפוּן לַצַּדִּיקִים.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>(p&apos;lo|NIT bat p&apos;lo|NI) a|SHER ne-es|FAH el a|me|HA. z&apos;CHOR lah tzid|ka|TAH a|SHER
as|TAH, vi|HI s&apos;cha|RAH i|TAH, u|fe-u|la|TAH le|fa|ne|HA. A|na has|TER et nish|ma|TAH
b&apos;TZEL k&apos;na|FE|cha, ho|di-e|HA O|rach cha|YIM, SO|va s&apos;ma|CHOT et pa|NE|cha, ne-i|MOT
bi|mi|ne|CHA NE|tzach, ve|tas|BIA lah me|ROV tuv ha|tza|FUN la|tza|di|KIM.</israeli>
            <orthographic>(pe|lo|NITH bath pe|lo|NI) ʾa|SHER ne|ʾes|FAH ʾel ʿam|me|HA. ze|KHOR lah tzidh|qa|THAH ʾa|SHER
ʿa|śe|THAH, vi|HI śe|kha|RAH ʾit|TAH, u|fe|ʿul|la|THAH le|fa|ne|HA. ʾAN|naʾ has|TER ʾeth nish|ma|THAH
be|TZEL ke|na|FE|kha, ho|dhi|ʿe|HA ʾO|raḥ ḥay|YIM, śO|vaʿ śe|ma|ḥOTH ʾeth pa|NE|kha, ne|ʿi|MOTH
bi|mi|ne|KHA NE|tzaḥ, ve|thaś|BIAʿ lah me|ROV ṭuv hat|tza|FUN lat|tzad|di|QIM.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>(pe|lo|NIT bat pe|lo|NI) a|SHER ne|es|FAH el ʿam|me|HA. ze|KHOR lah tzid|qa|TAH a|SHER
ʿa|se|TAH, vi|HI se|kha|RAH it|TAH, u|fe|ʿul|la|TAH le|fa|ne|HA. AN|na has|TER et nish|ma|TAH
be|TZEL ke|na|FE|kha, ho|di|ʿe|HA O|raḥ ḥay|YIM, SO|vaʿ se|ma|ḥOT et pa|NE|kha, ne|ʿi|MOT
bi|mi|ne|KHA NE|tzaḥ, ve|tas|BIAʿ lah me|ROV tuv hat|tza|FUN lat|tzad|di|QIM.</sephardic>
            <chabad>(p&apos;loy|NIS bas p&apos;loy|NI) a|SHER ne-es|FOH el a|me|HO. z&apos;CHOYR loh tzid|ko|SOH a|SHER
os&apos;|SOH, vi|HI s&apos;cho|ROH i|TOH, uf&apos;-u|lo|SOH l&apos;fo|ne|HO. O|no has|TEIR es nish|mo|SOH
b&apos;TZEIL k&apos;no|FE|cho, hoy|di-e|HO OY|rach cha|YIM, SOY|va s&apos;mo|CHOYS es po|NE|cho, n&apos;i|MOYS
bi|min&apos;|CHO NE|tzach, v&apos;sas|BIA loh mei|ROYV tuv ha|tzo|FUN la|tza|di|KIM.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>(name daughter of father&apos;s name) who was gathered unto her people. Recall the righteousness she practiced; may her reward accompany her and her recompense go before her. O keep her soul in the shadow of Your wings. Make the path of life known to her. Fullness of joy is in Your presence; bliss for evermore at Your right hand. Grant her the great goodness stored up for the righteous.</english>
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        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>כְּמוֹ שֶׁכָּתוּב: מָה רַב טוּבְךָ אֲשֶׁר־צָפַנְתָּ לִירֵאֶיךָ, פָּעַלְתָּ לַחוֹסִים בָּךְ נֶגֶד
בְּנֵי אָדָם:</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>k&apos;MO she|ka|TUV: mah rav tuv|CHA a|sher-tza|FAN|ta li|re-E|cha, pa-AL|ta la|cho|SIM bach NE|ged
b&apos;NEI a|DAM:</israeli>
            <orthographic>ke|MO shek|ka|THUV: mah rav ṭu|ve|KHA ʾa|sher-tza|FAN|ta li|re|ʾE|kha, pa|ʿAL|ta la|ḥo|SIM bakh NE|ghedh
be|NE ʾa|DHAM:</orthographic>
            <sephardic>ke|MO shek|ka|TUV: mah rav tu|ve|KHA a|sher-tza|FAN|ta li|re|E|kha, pa|ʿAL|ta la|ḥo|SIM bakh NE|ged
be|NE a|DAM:</sephardic>
            <chabad>k&apos;MOY she|ko|SUV: moh rav tuv&apos;|CHO a|sher-tzo|FAN|to li|rei-E|cho, po-AL|to la|choy|SIM boch NE|ged
b&apos;NEI o|DOM:</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>As Scripture has it, &quot;How great is Your goodness, stored up by You for those who revere You, bestowed by You on those that trust in You, before the children of men.&quot;</english>
          <citations>
            <citation>
              <type>Citation</type>
              <text>Ps. 31</text>
            </citation>
          </citations>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>אָנָּא יְהוָה, הָרוֹפֵא לִשְׁבוּרֵי לֵב וּמְחַבֵּשׁ לְעַצְּבוֹתָם, שַׁלֵּם נִחוּמִים לָאֲבֵלִים.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>A|na a|do|NAI, ha|ro|FEI lish|vu|REI lev u|me|cha|BESH le-atz|vo|TAM, sha|LEM ni|chu|MIM la-a|ve|LIM.</israeli>
            <orthographic>ʾAN|naʾ a|do|NAI, ha|ro|FEʾ lish|vu|RE lev u|me|ḥab|BESH le|ʿat|tze|vo|THAM, shal|LEM ni|ḥu|MIM la|ʾa|ve|LIM.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>AN|na a|do|NAI, ha|ro|FE lish|vu|RE lev u|me|ḥab|BESH le|ʿat|tze|vo|TAM, shal|LEM ni|ḥu|MIM la|a|ve|LIM.</sephardic>
            <chabad>O|no a|do|NOY, ho|roy|FEI lish|vu|REI leiv um&apos;|cha|BEISH l&apos;atz&apos;|voy|SOM, sha|LEIM ni|chu|MIM lo-a|vei|LIM.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>May the LORD who heals broken hearts and binds up their wounds, grant the mourners consolation.</english>
          <citations>
            <citation>
              <type>Citation</type>
              <text>Ps. 147</text>
            </citation>
          </citations>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Instructions</type>
          <text>For a young boy, include:</text>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>וּתְהִי פְּטִירַת הַיֶּלֶד הַזֶּה קֵץ לְכָל צָרָה וְצוּקָה לְאָבִיו וּלְאִמּוֹ.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>u|te|HI p&apos;ti|RAT ha|YE|led ha|ZEH ketz le|CHOL tza|RAH ve|tzu|KAH le-a|VIV u|le-i|MO.</israeli>
            <orthographic>u|the|HI pe|ṭi|RATH hay|YE|ledh haz|ZEH qetz le|KHOL tza|RAH ve|tzu|QAH le|ʾa|VIV u|le|ʾim|MO.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>u|te|HI pe|ti|RAT hay|YE|led haz|ZEH qetz le|KHOL tza|RAH ve|tzu|QAH le|a|VIV u|le|im|MO.</sephardic>
            <chabad>us&apos;|HI p&apos;ti|RAS ha|YE|led ha|ZEH keitz l&apos;CHOL tzo|ROH v&apos;tzu|KOH l&apos;o|VIV ul&apos;-i|MOY.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>May this boy’s passing bring to a close all anguish and sorrow for his parents.</english>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Instructions</type>
          <text>For a young girl, include:</text>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>וּתְהִי פְּטִירַת הַיַּלְדָּה הַזֹּאת קֵץ לְכָל צָרָה וְצוּקָה לְאָבִיהָ וּלְאִמָּהּ.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>u|te|HI p&apos;ti|RAT ha|yal|DAH ha|ZOT ketz le|CHOL tza|RAH ve|tzu|KAH le-a|vi|HA u|le-i|MAH.</israeli>
            <orthographic>u|the|HI pe|ṭi|RATH hay|yal|DAH haz|ZOʾTH qetz le|KHOL tza|RAH ve|tzu|QAH le|ʾa|vi|HA u|le|ʾim|MAH.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>u|te|HI pe|ti|RAT hay|yal|DAH haz|ZOT qetz le|KHOL tza|RAH ve|tzu|QAH le|a|vi|HA u|le|im|MAH.</sephardic>
            <chabad>us&apos;|HI p&apos;ti|RAS ha|yal|DOH ha|ZOYS keitz l&apos;CHOL tzo|ROH v&apos;tzu|KOH l&apos;o|vi|HO ul&apos;-i|MOH.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>May this girl’s passing bring to a close all anguish and sorrow for her parents.</english>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Instructions</type>
          <text>If the mourners have children, include the words in parentheses:</text>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>חַזְּקֵם וְאַמְּצֵם בְּיוֹם אֶבְלָם וְיְגוֹנָם, וְזָכְרֵם (וְזָכֹר אֶת בְּנֵי בֵיתָם) לְחַיִּים
טוֹבִים וַאֲרֻכִּים. תֵּן בְּלִבָּם יִרְאָתֶךָ וְאַהֲבָתֶךָ לְעָבְדְּךָ בְּלֵבָב שָׁלֵם, וּתְהִי
אַחֲרִיתָם שָׁלוֹם, אָמֵן.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>chaz|KEM ve-a|me|TZEM b&apos;YOM ev|LAM vey|go|NAM, ve|zach|REM (ve|za|CHOR et b&apos;NEI vei|TAM) le|cha|YIM
to|VIM va-a|ru|KIM. ten b&apos;li|BAM yir|a|TE|cha ve-a|ha|va|TE|cha le-avd|CHA b&apos;le|VAV sha|LEM, u|te|HI
a|cha|ri|TAM sha|LOM, a|MEN.</israeli>
            <orthographic>ḥaz|ze|QEM ve|ʾam|me|TZEM be|YOM ʾev|LAM ve|ye|gho|NAM, ve|za|khe|REM (ve|za|KHOR ʾeth be|NE ve|THAM) le|ḥay|YIM
ṭo|VIM va|ʾa|ruk|KIM. ten be|lib|BAM yir|ʾa|THE|kha ve|ʾa|ha|va|THE|kha le|ʿa|ved|de|KHA be|le|VAV sha|LEM, u|the|HI
ʾa|ḥa|ri|THAM sha|LOM, ʾa|MEN.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>ḥaz|ze|QEM ve|am|me|TZEM be|YOM ev|LAM ve|ye|go|NAM, ve|za|khe|REM (ve|za|KHOR et be|NE ve|TAM) le|ḥay|YIM
to|VIM va|a|ruk|KIM. ten be|lib|BAM yir|a|TE|kha ve|a|ha|va|TE|kha le|ʿa|ved|de|KHA be|le|VAV sha|LEM, u|te|HI
a|ḥa|ri|TAM sha|LOM, a|MEN.</sephardic>
            <chabad>chaz&apos;|KEIM v&apos;am&apos;|TZEIM b&apos;YOYM ev|LOM v&apos;y&apos;goy|NOM, v&apos;zoch&apos;|REIM (v&apos;zo|CHOYR es b&apos;NEI vei|SOM) l&apos;cha|YIM
toy|VIM va-a|ru|KIM. tein b&apos;li|BOM yir|o|SE|cho v&apos;a|ha|vo|SE|cho l&apos;ov&apos;d&apos;|CHO b&apos;lei|VOV sho|LEIM, us&apos;|HI
a|cha|ri|SOM sho|LOYM, o|MEIN.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Uphold and sustain them in their day of sadness and grief; and remember them (and their children) for a long and good life. Place within their hearts both love and reverence for You, that they may serve You with a perfect heart; and may their end be peace. Amen.</english>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>כְּאִישׁ אֲשֶׁר אִמּוֹ תְּנַחֲמֶנּוּ
כֵּן אָנֹכִי אֲנַחֶמְכֶם
וּבִירוּשָׁלַ͏ִם תְּנֻחָמוּ:</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>ke-ISH a|SHER i|MO t&apos;na|cha|ME|nu
ken a|no|CHI a|na|chem|CHEM
u|vi|ru|sha|LAM t&apos;nu|cha|MU:</israeli>
            <orthographic>ke|ʾISH ʾa|SHER ʾim|MO te|na|ḥa|MEN|nu
ken ʾa|no|KHI ʾa|na|ḥem|KHEM
u|vi|ru|sha|LAM te|nu|ḥa|MU:</orthographic>
            <sephardic>ke|ISH a|SHER im|MO te|na|ḥa|MEN|nu
ken a|no|KHI a|na|ḥem|KHEM
u|vi|ru|sha|LAM te|nu|ḥa|MU:</sephardic>
            <chabad>k&apos;ISH a|SHER i|MOY t&apos;na|cha|ME|nu
kein o|noy|CHI a|na|chem|CHEM
u|vi|ru|sho|LAM t&apos;nu|cho|MU:</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>As a mother consoles her son, so I will console you; and in Jerusalem you shall be comforted.</english>
          <citations>
            <citation>
              <type>Citation</type>
              <text>Is. 66</text>
            </citation>
          </citations>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>לֹא־יָבוֹא עוֹד שִׁמְשֵׁךְ, וִירֵחֵךְ לֹא יֵאָסֵף
כִּי יְהוָה יִהְיֶה־לָּךְ לְאוֹר עוֹלָם
וְשָׁלְמוּ יְמֵי אֶבְלֵךְ:</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>lo-ya|VO od shim|SHECH, vi|re|CHECH lo ye-a|SEF
ki a|do|NAI yih|yeh-lach le-OR o|LAM
ve|sha|le|MU ye|MEI ev|LECH:</israeli>
            <orthographic>loʾ-ya|VOʾ ʿodh shim|SHEKH, vi|re|ḥEKH loʾ ye|ʾa|SEF
ki a|do|NAI yih|yeh-lakh le|ʾOR ʿo|LAM
ve|sha|le|MU ye|ME ʾev|LEKH:</orthographic>
            <sephardic>lo-ya|VO ʿod shim|SHEKH, vi|re|ḥEKH lo ye|a|SEF
ki a|do|NAI yih|yeh-lakh le|OR ʿo|LAM
ve|sha|le|MU ye|ME ev|LEKH:</sephardic>
            <chabad>loy-yo|VOY oyd shim|SHEICH, vi|rei|CHEICH loy yei-o|SEIF
ki a|do|NOY yih|yeh-loch l&apos;OYR oy|LOM
v&apos;shol&apos;|MU y&apos;MEI ev|LEICH:</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Your sun shall set no more, nor shall your moon withdraw itself, for the LORD shall be your light everlasting, and ended shall be your days of mourning.</english>
          <citations>
            <citation>
              <type>Citation</type>
              <text>Is. 60</text>
            </citation>
          </citations>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>בִּלַּע הַמָּוֶת לָנֶצַח
וּמָחָה אֲדֹנָי יְהֹוִה דִּמְעָה מֵעַל כָּל־פָּנִים
וְחֶרְפַּת עַמּוֹ יָסִיר מֵעַל כָּל־הָאָרֶץ
כִּי יְהוָה דִּבֵּר:</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>bi|LA ha|ma|VET la|NE|tzach
u|ma|CHAH a|do|NAI a|do|NAI dim|AH me-AL kol-pa|NIM
ve|cher|PAT a|MO ya|SIR me-AL kol-ha-a|RETZ
ki a|do|NAI di|BER:</israeli>
            <orthographic>bil|LAʿ ham|ma|VETH la|NE|tzaḥ
u|ma|ḥAH a|do|NAI a|do|NAI dim|ʿAH me|ʿAL kol-pa|NIM
ve|ḥer|PATH ʿam|MO ya|SIR me|ʿAL kol-ha|ʾa|RETZ
ki a|do|NAI dib|BER:</orthographic>
            <sephardic>bil|LAʿ ham|ma|VET la|NE|tzaḥ
u|ma|ḥAH a|do|NAI a|do|NAI dim|ʿAH me|ʿAL kol-pa|NIM
ve|ḥer|PAT ʿam|MO ya|SIR me|ʿAL kol-ha|a|RETZ
ki a|do|NAI dib|BER:</sephardic>
            <chabad>bi|LA ha|mo|VES lo|NE|tzach
u|mo|CHOH a|do|NOY a|do|NOY dim|OH mei-AL kol-po|NIM
v&apos;cher|PAS a|MOY yo|SIR mei-AL kol-ho-o|RETZ
ki a|do|NOY di|BEIR:</chabad>
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          <english>Death shall be destroyed for ever; and the LORD God shall wipe the tears from every face, and His people’s reproach He shall take from the entire earth; for the LORD has spoken it.</english>
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